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When Paraffin and his wife Mai Sorobhi visit a dentist for treatment of the latter’s toothache, there is real drama. Mai Sorobhi is in pain and clinic staff appear too slow for Paraffin who feels for his wife. The situation gets worse when a worker at the clinic gives Amai Sorobhi condoms and she accepts them. Paraffin makes a scene at the clinic, scolding the attendants and vehemently protesting against their actions.

The way he does it triggers both sympathy and excitement.

That was an episode from yesteryear television series “Paraffin” featuring Paraffin whose real name was Philip Mushangwe and Rhoda Mtembi as Amai Sorobhi.

The episode was titled “Zino” and 20 years down the line Mtembi still cherishes her role as wife to mischievous Paraffin.

The Herald Entertainment caught up with her last week at her Kuwadzwana Extension house where she spoke on different issues about her life and career. However the feels cheated, neglected and duped by upcoming producers.

Nothing much has changed about her. She is still energetic, outspoken and comical.

Mai Sorobhi who was a no nonsense wife was the only one who could make sober her notorious husband Paraffin in the drama series.

She narrated how she got to meet her late screen partner, Paraffin.

“I was a health promoter working at a clinic in Glen View and acting in dramas that focused on child abuse, HIV and Aids. One day Aaron Chiundura Moyo (author) came to watch our drama in which I acted as a male figure.

“He was impressed by my performance and he took me to ZBCTV for auditions,” she recalled.

She added that although she was first given a male actor to work with, they did not click until Paraffin came into the picture.

“At first I was given a role as wife to the late Mutirowafanza but our combination was not perfect but when I acted with Baba Sorobhi it became perfect, and that is how our relationship began.”

Regardless of the time that has elapsed, she vividly recalls some of her best episodes that include “Zino” and “Nduna”.

“I classify ‘Zino’ as the best of all our episodes, I remember very well how we were personally impressed by that act. ‘Nduna’ was also a good episode.”

In “Nduna” she had two sons Nduna and Cambion who were very mischievous and arrogant and Paraffin aices Mai Sorobhi to take the two sons for medical attention for them to reason normally.

Mai Sorobhi who acted her role with perfection said their close professional relationship with Paraffin never negatively affected their marriages.

“I never encountered any challenges with his real wife. She loved me and actually acted with her in the episode when we did modelling. She was that fat woman if you recall the episode,” she said laughing.

“My late husband was very supportive and was never jealousy of my screen partner and he trusted me a lot. We wanted him to be part of the cast but he refused because he was not talented in acting.”

She clearly remembers that celebrity recognition she used to have those days from all over.

“It was a great experience those days, wherever I went people would call me ‘Mai Sorobhi’ and I was proud of that.

“Up to now when l come across people in the streets they still greet me and ask, ‘Mai Sorobhi did your teeth heal?’

She said the other time she had to use her tricks to withdraw money from the bank. “I remember this other day when I carried a newspaper that had my face to a bank and l realised that I had forgotten my national identity card at home.

“I requested to see the manager and I told him that I am Mai Sorobhi. I showed him the paper and he just laughed and allowed me to withdraw the amount I needed.

“Usually I don’t wait in queues to get something, people still give me respect,” she added.

The veteran actress appeared in dramas such as “Asi Chii Nhai”, “Mwana Anokosha”, “Paraffin 1 to 3” but could not complete shooting part 4 “Nhamo” after the death of the main actor Paraffin. She said after Paraffin’s death it became difficult for her to land other opportunities in other plays. She tried to return in 2009 with a drama called “Simbimbino” that was a flop.

Now at the age of 71, Mai Sorobhi still wants to return to the screen although she feels reluctant now.

“I still have deep passion to be part of a cast but what has been happening is discouraging me.

“I’m always given empty promises. This year in January I was approached by a certain guy who wanted me to be part of his drama.

“I agreed, was given script and I acted my part and he just said we will give you a call soon but he never returned. I only realised it later that I was used as I heard that the play was being sold in South Africa.

“But now I’m clever, people think they can use me but they will not be successful. They have to understand that acting is a business, I no longer agree to act when there is no proper agreement,” she said angrily.

Mai Sorobhi’s voice cracked as she shared how much she misses Paraffin and wished he was still alive.

“If he had lived longer I believe we could have taken our talents to higher levels.

“We understood each other well and would correct each other when one missed a line in a special way that nobody could notice.” Mai Sorobhi said discipline in her career has preserved her life up to date.

“It pains me because most of yesteryear actors are dead. I think the main reason why they died early is because they were lured by wrong things. I never stretched beyond professional relationship with my colleagues.

Like any other actor in Zimbabwe, Mai Sorobhi has a heart-breaking story to tell

“There are no people who really support dramas these days. Back then it was lucrative and I bought this (Kuwadzana Extension) house with money from acting.” She still believes yesteryear dramas were the best as compared to current productions.

“Madrama amazuva ano anyanya chinoz-noz, heeh wasup nigga what, what and it’s difficult for older people to understand them. In our productions we used Shona that most people could understand clearly.”

Mai Sorobhi is now employed by Harare City Council as a health promoter and she goes around teaching people about hygiene.

Mai Sorobhi’s real husband Vaxison Mtembe passed away in 2001 and the couple were blessed with seven children and fifteen grandchildren.

Source : The Herald

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